06 Jun The Time is Now to Stand Up Against Racial Injustice
Hello my friends. It’s been a tough week. I’m not sure you’re feeling like I am, but I feel like I got the wind knocked out of me. We’ve seen George Floyd murdered right before our eyes by police brutality. It’s shocking and unconscionable. As a result, we’re in the thick of major protests sweeping across the country in the middle of a global Pandemic. No words I say will be exactly right, but I felt that it was important to say something to you. Today I’m sharing some resources and a powerful essay in the LA Times written by my friend Marques Harper. It’s had a profound effect on me. I’d like you to please read and share it with your family and friends because the time is now to stand up against racial injustice.
I Stand With You
Know that my thoughts and prayers are with the families of George Floyd, but I know this is not enough. Mr. Floyd was murdered by police brutality. While thousands march in the streets against racial injustice, we are witnessing more police brutality against peaceful protestors. This is wrong. Very wrong. As a white woman, I know there are privileges I take for granted, but I will no longer be blind to the injustice before me. I’m also a mother, and my heart goes out to all black mothers who fear for the safety of their sons and daughters. This has to change. I’ll do everything in my power to help change the racist, unjust system that is against black America.
I hear you.
I see you.
I stand with you.
Week 5 Canceled
Normally I’d be sharing Week 5 of the One Room Challenge, but they canceled it, which was the right thing to do, and went silent this week to instead share resources.
We stand in solidarity over the racial injustice and murders of George Floyd and the many other victims of police brutality and racism. To both honor and respect these victims there will not be a Week 5 of the ORC and posting will return next week. The ORC team will use this time to better educate ourselves to be the best possible allies. – One Room Challenge
The One Room Challenge website HERE shares anti-racism resources, petitions, donations, articles, and podcasts. Also books to read to educate ourselves so we can stand up against racial injustice.
Emotions Running High
Like many of you, I’m still grieving. I’m still angry. I’m still sad. I’m still trying to wrap my head around everything that’s going on in this important moment in history. I stepped back from my regular programming on social media this past week to support the Black Lives Matter movement. I wanted to listen, really listen. I’ve been learning a lot. And instead of talking design, I’ve been sharing the voices of people of color in my Instagram Stories and I will continue to do so. While I may not be able to actively march in the streets, I stand with the protesters and want to do everything I can to support them and find #JusticeForGeorgeFloyd.
One Man’s Story on Being Black in America
This story below is not just by any black man. Marques is a dear friend of mine who used to live in Austin. He was the fashion writer for the Austin American Statesman. I knew him as a very private person. It was only when he offered me a lift home one evening after an Austin event, and I sat on top of a huge stack of newspapers in his passenger seat, did we become friends. While we don’t see each other often, here we are celebrating our birthdays at, what now is, Aviary Kitchen, on one of his visits to Austin. I cannot imagine the thought of Marques being killed from police brutality, but as you’ll see in his essay, it is all too real a daily fear. We must change this, and the time is now.
As a black man, I felt lucky to turn 40 – and sad that so many have not
by Marques Harper | Image Editor | LA Times, June 5, 2020
When I turned 40, I didn’t take a victory lap to celebrate my successes in L.A. after a bumpy landing during my early years in the City of Angels. I didn’t focus on the wonderful memories I had or the deep sadness and melancholy that are simply a part of life, especially if you live and love long enough to reach middle age.
There was no big party with my closest friends. There were no….
Read full article HERE.
Take Action Now
There are so many things we can do to help black America. Like support black businesses, donate to organizations for racial justice, vote, and more. Also, a simple phone call or text to our black friends to check in on them to see how they’re doing let’s them know we care. There are numerous resources online to help us all take action and I encourage you to seek them out. I believe it is vital that we don’t let our confusion paralyze us into inaction. As a designer, I am doing what I can to support my friends who are black designers and getting to know other designers and their work every day on Instagram. But it’s tricky….because it is important to be sensitive to their perspective. Don’t ask them what to do. Find out for yourself. Let’s be the change and stand up together against racial injustice now!
Here are a few resources that I’ve found helpful below:
Taking Action in Solidarity with Black Lives
Resource Guide to Creating Change in Austin
35 Black Designers You Should be Following on Instagram
Black Interior Designers Network
Next week, I’ll be resuming our Kitchen Renovation for the national One Room Challenge, as I have a job to finish, design decisions to share, and sponsors I’m responsible for promoting. But know I will continue to listen, learn, and take action against racial injustice from this day forward. Silence is no longer an option. Clearly the time to act is NOW to stand up against racial injustice. I hope you will join me and remember that we need to be in this for the long haul until we create equality for all black men and women.
Stay safe and well. XO PG
Leslie Carothers
Posted at 15:34h, 06 JuneThis is such an excellent post, Deb. Thank you for sharing the story of your good friend ,and thank you for sharing these further resources. The most important thing we can do, to my mind, is to not let this be a *one week* movement, but to keep taking those small actions on a daily and weekly basis, each one of us, that add up to the change we need to see and be, going forward.
Deborah Main
Posted at 17:28h, 06 JuneThank you Leslie! Yes, this is far from a *one week* movement. We all need to keep it going until there’s justice.
Thank you for reading my post. 💛
SANDRA ALVAREZ
Posted at 19:23h, 06 JuneThank you Deborah. The change we need will take ALL of us working together. Love you.
Deborah Main
Posted at 22:27h, 08 JuneHi Sandy. Yes, the change we need will definitely take ALL of us for the long haul. As has been said, this is not a sprint but a marathon. But I am more hopeful than ever. Love you too!!
Thank you for stopping by the blog my friend. Xo ❤
Jillian
Posted at 07:27h, 07 JuneThank you for sharing Marques’ essay and for speaking out. It really doesn’t feel right to continue posting as usual with everything going on. It’s something I’ve been struggling with but don’t feel like I’ve found the right words yet.
Deborah Main
Posted at 22:34h, 08 JuneHi Jillian. You’re welcome. Yes, it’s hard to know what to say as its a very challenging time in our history. I definitely can relate to it being a struggle. But even if we mess up, which I have many times, its okay. Give yourself time and the right words will come.
Thank you so much for stopping by the blog and reading Marques’ essay. Here to support you in any way I can.❤
Lisa Peck
Posted at 10:44h, 07 JuneThanks for sharing the resources you have found. Appreciate it.
Deborah Main
Posted at 22:35h, 08 JuneYou’re welcome Lisa. There are SO many resources out there now!!
Thank you for stopping by the blog 🙂
Janet R Lorusso
Posted at 13:24h, 07 JuneSuch an excellent post, Deborah, and an important and heartbreaking one. Thank you for sharing your friend Marques’s excellent article. And you are right – we cannot let things drift back to “normal” when the freshness of this outrage wears off, we need to stand beside our brothers and sisters until there is justice.
Deborah Main
Posted at 22:39h, 08 JuneThank you Janet. I’m glad you were able to read Marques’ essay. I felt it important to share his perspective. Yes, I know many of us will stand with our brothers and sisters to see that justice is achieved.
Thank you for being one of those people and for taking the time to read my blog. ❤
Sheri Bruneau
Posted at 14:17h, 07 JuneDeborah,
I went to Marques’s blog to read it. Thank you for posting the link. I continue to read, listen, and educate myself. I would have never known Marques’ feelings had you not posted the link.
May this moment in time not be just a moment. May we continue to educate ourselves and take the necessary steps for everyone to be treated equally.
Deborah Main
Posted at 22:46h, 08 JuneHi Sheri. I’m so happy to hear that you read Marques’ essay and that it was meaningful to you. There are SO many voices out there for us to listen to and learn from. Its truly remarkable that it took this moment in time to jolt us awake. But as painful as it is, I’m so grateful for this opportunity for all of us to take these necessary steps forward for real change. I feel more hopeful than ever that equality is coming and we can all do our part.
Thanks so much for stopping by the blog. As always, Sheri, I truly appreciate your support. ❤
Mary Ann Benoit
Posted at 14:54h, 07 JuneThank you for sharing this, your friend’s story and those helpful resources. I hope things are different this time and it really will be a time of change.
Deborah Main
Posted at 22:47h, 08 JuneHi Mary Ann. You’re welcome. I believe we ARE in a different time period and I think, if we all continue to work hard, we will see a change.
Thank you for stopping by the blog. 🙂
Michelle Felux
Posted at 16:54h, 08 JuneWhat a beautiful, well written post! Your friend’s essay was very moving. I am in complete agreement about this – it can’t be a moment. It has to be a movement. I hope I can continue to be an ally moving forward to help bring equity.
Deborah Main
Posted at 22:52h, 08 JuneHi Michelle. Thank you for stopping by the blog and reading Marques’ essay. It IS very powerful and only one black man’s voice. I can imagine there are an infinite number of personal stories out there. I’m so glad he wrote it for all of us to read.
Yes, it has to be a movement and I hope more ways open up for more black men and women to share their stories. Their voices are needed now more than ever in our country. I know you will do everything you can to help. ❤